Respect to my husband means asking myself the question, "How would James feel if I did?" and vice versa.
I am continuing to learn and grow in the area of respect. I realized I must submit to my husband. The thought of submitting to my husband was not easy for me. After many hard times and trials in our marriage I realized how completely clueless I was. Submission is not being a doormat. It is the total opposite. I've found how much closer I have become to my husband because I chose to submit.
I have learned that when a woman doesn't feel loved by her husband, its because her husband doesn't feel respected.